When You Fear Judgement, Read This

“What will they think of me?!” ⁣⁣

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Have you ever worried about this before!? I have!⁣⁣

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The next time you’re worried about judgement, try reflecting on is this:

people aren’t thinking about you as much as you think they are!⁣⁣

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It can feel like a harsh truth but the reality is that everyone is so focused on their own lives. ⁣⁣

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Of course people will notice you and think about you! A certain amount of people will, but it’s not the amount of people that fear tries to tell us will. ⁣⁣

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Not every single person is paying attention and judging us, not by a long shot!⁣⁣

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So if you feel called to do something, think about how very little you pay attention and notice about others and try to do what you feel called to do! ⁣⁣

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The fear of judgement doesn’t have to stop you, because if it does, then aren’t you just living for others?⁣⁣

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What makes YOU happy? Is it dancing in the rain? Wearing a wild and fun outfit even though people may look at you? Going out with your friends (also: who made the rule that people cant go out after their 20’s)? ⁣⁣

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Here I was in these photos dancing in the rain with someone I just met (Tracy Orzel Photography - book her, she is AMAZING!) while she took pictures and people walked by looking at us. 🧐

To be carefree and ‘in the moment’ is so beautiful and freeing. Some of those people even smiled! We were too! :)